Friday, June 29

"I close my eyes... and feel your hand in mine"

My sweet babies, Bon Jovi had a new album come out last week... and so I'm steeped in Bon Jovi goodness. I LOVE LOVE LOVE this album, Lost Highway. So far my favorite track is #4 "Whole Lot of Leaving Going On" in which he sings the above.
"I close my eyes, and feel your hand in mine."


Folks... the facts are clear. It couldn't be more obvious. He is of course singing to me about the fateful night our hands touched. In case you forgot, you can refresh your memory here. Anyway, it's nice to see that the moment we shared meant as much to me as it did to him. :D


In other news Big Brother 8 starts next week and I might actually pee myself in antici...

Thursday, June 21

The Implicit Association Test

I saw a piece on Oprah recently about a test that was developed at Harvard. The test uses quick, rapid fire responses to visual stimuli to gauge your preferences for black and white people. It sounded interesting, so I looked it up and took it. Here is the result.

Thank you for your participation.

In this study, we are investigating conscious and unconscious preferences with regard to black and white people. Your result on the Implicit Association Test is reported immediately below:

  • Your data suggest a moderate automatic preference for White People compared to Black People.


It goes on in more detail related to the questions asked, but that's the basic result. Hopefully a modest preference for your own race is to be expected. Another interesting result is that I rated black males higher than white males. Interesting. To take the test yourself follow this link. If you have problems with the link the url is https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/Study?tid=-1

Tuesday, June 19

Shannon Malloy Fund

To send a donation by check...
Wells Fargo
7150 Leetsdale Dr.
Denver, CO
80224
In the memo section please write: 3036660508

Shannon Malloy Benefit Info. It's Time to Party!

My friend, Shannon Malloy, was in a horrible accident earlier this year and she almost died. Some of you may have heard her story. If you haven't I ask you to take a moment and read this story from Channel 7 news:

~~~~~~Article from Denvers Channel 7 news: DENVER, Colo. — Miracles do happen. That's what doctors said about 30-year-old Shannon Malloy. A car crash in Nebraska on Jan. 25 threw Malloy up against the vehicle's dashboard. In the process, her skull became separated from her spine. The clinical term for her condition is called internal decapitation. "I remember the impact and then I had no control over my head," said Malloy. "I wasn't focused so much on the pain. I just kept thinking, 'I have to stay alive.'" Dr. Gary Ghiselli, a chiropractor at the Denver Spine Center, said Malloy's will to survive is what saved her. "I've seen it once before and, unfortunately, the patient didn't make it," said Ghiselli. Five screws were drilled into Malloy's neck. Four more were drilled into her head to keep it stabilized. Then a thing called a halo — rods and a circular metal bar — was attached for added support. It's not exactly a pain-free procedure. "My skull slipped off my neck about five times. Every time they tried to screw this to my head, I would slip," said Malloy. Rebuilding Malloy's neck strength was a priority, but there were also other complications. "I had a fractured skull, swollen brain stem, bleeding in my brain, GI tube in my stomach, can't swallow, and nerve damage in my eyes (because they cross)," said Malloy. Doctors are working on that but she has been lucky enough to get the halo removed. She videotaped the experience for 7NEWS. "It only took about 8 minutes to take the whole thing off," said Malloy. "Wow! There's my girl again," said her mom, Robin Frazee. Frazee said she's amazed that her daughter has found the strength to survive the ordeal. Frazee remembers the first few days in the hospital as "touch and go." One doctor continued to tell the family to prepare for the worst. "It was just really scary because he just kept saying we've never seen this injury before in a person that's alive and you need to say your goodbyes," said Frazee. But, goodbye won't be happening anytime soon. "Oh my God, it's a miracle," said Malloy. "It's a miracle that she was able to survive from the actual accident. It's a miracle that she's made the progress that she's made," said Ghiselli. Doctors will continue to work on Malloy's swallowing and vision. Malloy said a big step in her recovery progress was the removal of her halo and it's made her hopeful that a full recovery is in sight. "I would ideally like to be fully recovered. I know that's not going to be a great possibility. I could come real close though," said Malloy. Malloy still has a long, costly recovery ahead. A fund has been set up in Malloy's name at Wells Fargo banks. You can make donations at any location under the "The Benefit of Shannon Malloy."



I've put a link on my site to the Wells Fargo Locations site. You can go there and find out where the nearest Wells Fargo Bank site is to your home. They have banks all across the country. You can also call 1-800-956-4442 for help in locating a donation spot near you.


For those of you in Denver, there is another way to help... and it's much more fun. On Saturday, June 30th there is going to be a benefit for Shannon. Funds raised will go towards the payment of the MAJOR medical costs she has now. The benefit is going to be at Sam Taylor's BBQ (435 S Cherry St, Denver CO, 303-388-9300) from 2:00 - 7:00. There will be music, raffles, and more.


You can also check out Shannon's MySpace page for more info. If you can help, please do. Shannon is a close friend of mine and although her spirits are great, she has a really long road ahead of her. I love Shannon dearly, and I hope that those of you that can come to the benefit will. I would love to hang out with all of you out there, and you should meet Shannon. She's the coolest fucking person ever.